LEADERSHIP AND ITS DISCONTENTS
I believe there exists throughout America today a rampant sabotage of
leaders who try to stand tall amid the raging storms of our time. It is s highly
reactive atmosphere pervading all the institutions of our society – a
regressive mood that contaminates the decision-making processes of government
and corporations at the highest level, and, on the local level, seeps down into
deliberations of neighborhood church, synagogue, hospital, library, and school
boards. It is “something in the air” that affects the most ordinary family
no matter what its ethnic background. And its frustrating effect on leaders is
the same no matter what their gender, race, or age. (Edwin A. Friedman, A
Failure of Nerve)
This book just came to me and the quote
above comes from the introduction which I have browsed to date. Why am I
ordering this book on leadership? Because I realized in the wake of what became
last year a leadership vacuum at Hope Church that I was never trained to be a
leader. I may have the character, the will, and the gifts of leadership, but
there had never been in my life prior to this time an intentionally reflective
process on leadership.
Seminary training was, and still is,
primarily theological training. Last fall I began a process of Interim Ministry
Training in Minnesota, 30 hours of instruction in October 2006 to start, some
work in between, and another 30 hours to finish up last month back in Minnesota.
I now have a mini library of leadership books sitting above my computer in my
office. They whisper to me every day (well, sometimes they yell) telling me that
yes, I am a leader…act like one! But oh how difficult this is, and at a time
like this, which, according to Friedman, finds leaders and institutions “stuck
in a rut.”
I chose to attend Interim Ministry Training
precisely because of the rut, and the leadership vacuum (I learned to call it
such in training) that I was deeply ensconced in. I have no intention of running
off to actually do interim ministry,
but I am profoundly convinced that Hope Church is still in transition, and that
all institutions, religious or otherwise, are in a state of flux. The old
moorings and safe harbors that once served such institutions will no longer
provide us with stability. We must learn to navigate new waters together.
Mostly, I write this now to let you in on a
piece of my journey, and to ask for your prayers. I am growing to accept this
challenge. In some ways it is still the same – it is my willingness to lead by
example, to share my journey of faith and hope, and to challenge the community
to grow, even as I myself find growth opportunities. With Friedman’s
understanding that effective leadership is first and foremost an emotional
process in mind, I encourage not only my growth as a leader, but that all of you
who provide leadership at Hope would find strength in the knowledge that you too
have a calling to leadership, and a community that provides you with prayerful
support.
Pastor Vance Toivonen